It’s not WHERE you go, but WHO you are.
Arlene Matthews has written a book entitled Getting In Without Freaking Out: 101 Stress-Free Secrets. Secret #4 suggests that a parent ask their student to name three people they admire and why. Afterwords ask the student where those people went to college. Odds are the student won’t have a clue. Illustrating once again, that it is not where you go to college, but who you are that will cause those around you to admire you.
Who YOU are should drive where you go to college, not who your friends and family think you are, or wish you were. Begin your college search by reflecting on who you are and who you want to be. Remember college is a match to be made, not a prize to be won.
Dreams Happen at Target and Safety Schools as Well
The most striking reality these final weeks of April is that the majority of high school seniors are choosing between two safety schools, or if fortunate ,between a safety and a target school. I’m sure you can list on one hand the number of seniors you know who are choosing between two of their reach schools.
Yes, it is true that gaining acceptance to college is getting tougher with every passing year, and is expected to continue this trend until at earliest 2013. For the unborn child that is good news. For the rest of aspiring students past the sixth grade, we need to focus our research and reflection not on those exciting “reach” colleges that fill our dreams, but instead on the runner-up “target” schools that are almost as good but not quite. Equally important is to understand your “safety” schools–there’s no safety in a school you learn in April doesn’t have the major you want.
Though I hesitate to quote Stanford’s Dean of Admissions, a school oft cited for “wacky” admissions decisions, Richard Shaw’s message to parents and students is to “celebrate what you have. The key here is for families to rally around options and move forward.” And to parents in particular he advises them to step back and make sure they’re not more upset than their son or daughter. Upon reflection families so often report, “It was all for the best. She couldn’t have been happier.” Dreams come in many packages–yes, they happen every day at target and safety schools as well.
Make the choice. Celebrate your senior’s accomplishments in high school. Prepare for a summer when you’re all in transition to this exciting new stage in life. Frequent hugs will help to get everyone through it. Even the family dog will need extra support as he/she loses a friend to college.
But I Don’t Qualify for Financial Aid…You Might Be Surprised!
Southern California, April 12…sunny skies, breezy and 70 degrees…perfect weather for staying inside, completing your taxes, waiting in line at the Post Office AND coming straight home to complete your son or daughter’s FAFSA!?!…Free Application for Federal Student Aid: the form required to be completed by all applicants for federal student aid and sufficient for most states and private colleges to establish eligibility for non-federally sponsored aid programs.
The FAFSA can be completed entirely on line in little over an hour using data from your current 1040 forms. What is considered when calculating student need? Annual income and value of investments are the two major factors. NOT considered is the value of your primary residence! [Note I recommend that you sign your student’s FAFSA electronically by requesting a pin. It will take a day or so now, but save you a lot of time in future years.And remember even if you are denied aid this year, reapply in future years.]
You will be asked to enter the code for the school(s) your son/daughter plans to attend next year. …DON’T wait for a final decision.
Every day that passes the line is forming for financial aid at each college and university.
The individual colleges and universities may ask you to provide them with additional information to complete the application. In my experience satisfying these requests takes mimimal time.
It is hard to predict whether or not your son/daughter qualifies for financial aid. It depends on you, them, other students applying, their parents and the financial aid at the discretion of the college or university. So stay inside one more hour and complete your FAFSA. Good luck!
P.S. The sooner the better for submitting a FAFSA, but it’s never too late…summer or even during the school year. The size of the pot of available moneys is just shrinking. But we all know circumstances don’t always change according to schedule, so never hesitate to approach the Office of Financial Aid at your son or daughter’s college at any time throughout the years. They want your son/daughter to have the opportunity to graduate from their college.
UCLA BREAKS THE UC MOLD: Looking to Learn Who the Applicant Is and What He/She Cares About
As reported in today’s Los Angeles Times (B-1), UCLA is trying an all new (for them) “holistic” approach to reviewing applications for admissions. The change at least in part was motivated by UCLA’s lagging diversity, while at the same time being forbidden to consider ethnicity when making admission decisions. It will be interesting to see what if any impact it has on the make-up of the graduating class of 2011. “We’re looking for all kinds of students at UCLA.” No other UC has reported similar changes to its review procedures. The UCLA approach continues to give more weight to grades and test scores, but promises that each admissions reader will read the entire application prior to rating it on a 1 to 5 scale with 1. being “Emphatically recommend for admission” and 5.being “Recommend deny”. Each application will be scored by two readers.
UCLA admissions readers offered some important insight into their criteria: “Be wary of sob stories, but try to recognize when a student has genuine difficulties. Look for ‘passion’ in an applicant’s file, as well as evidence of values and ethics. Look for leadership, but know that not every student could be first in everything.” The article also criticized a hypothetical application because the student focused his essays on his parents, and not enough on “who he was and what he cared about.”
Only time will tell the impact that this holistic approach will have on who gains acceptance to UCLA, and who does not. But any movement toward looking beyond grades and test scores should be encouraged.
March Madness: Player or Fan It’s Fun!
Speaking from experience, participating in college sports can be one of the highlights of your college years. Though most college athletes never have the opportunity to participate in the NCAA’s March Madness, “March Madness” happens at thousands of colleges and universities across the country throughout the year. The “Madness” doesn’t just surround basketball and football, but it is just as likely to happen at a LaCrosse, Ice Hockey or Volleyball game.
The “Madness” I speak of is not the game itself, but instead its waiting in line to get a ticket, wearing your school colors, maybe painting your face (big games), getting there early to cheer before the team even arrives, cheering every point scored, challenging every “bad” call, and when its over win or lose singing the school’s alma mater, going back to your dorm or house to debate what happened and plan for your next big game. College sports…nothing matches the excitement or emotion.
For those of you considering participating as an athlete at your college or university there is an extensive set of rules governing Division I and Division II participation. These rules do not apply to Division III schools. if you go to the National Collegiate Athletic Association website[ www.ncaa.org. ] you can find out which NCAA Division the schools you are interested in belong to. Don’t be fooled, size and TV time are not the determining factors: University of Southern California and University of the Pacific are both NCAA Division I teams.
At the end of your junior year, potential collegiate athletes must complete the NCAA’s Initial Eligibility form along with the NCAA Amateurism Certificate. These forms and the NCAA’s recruiting rules can all be found on their website. You will also need to send to the NCAA Clearinghouse a transcript with six high school semester’s grades along with SAT and/or ACT test scores. The NCAA will then “clear” you to participate in college athletics. For this “service” you will need to send a check to the NCAA as well. Even if you believe you will participate in a Division III sport, I recommend that you go through this process to leave all other options open to you.
Happily fans are “clear to cheer” for their teams the day they set foot on the campus. What better than to have all the “March Madness” without those long practices the athletes have to go through? Wherever you go become a fan, it’s fun.
SAT Writing Test: Do Colleges Care?
To follow is an article that appeared in the Pittsburgh Post Gazette exploring what colleges are really doing with the new SAT I Writing portion–some for admission, some for placement and some wait and see. Though the article sites schools in the immediate Pittsburgh area, the findings can be generalized throughout the country.
Colleges still unsure how to use new SAT
Many schools waiting to see how writing scores correspond with performance
Sunday, February 25, 2007
By Eleanor Chute, Pittsburgh Post-Gazette
Two years after the College Board added a new section on writing to the SAT, many colleges and universities still haven’t decided what to do with it.
Many — including Carnegie Mellon, Penn State, the University of Pittsburgh and Duquesne University — are waiting to see how it matches up with students’ actual college performance before using it in admissions or placement. Some are waiting at least until the fall 2009 entering class.
Others have taken the plunge. They include Seton Hill University, which uses the writing test for admission and English placement, and Grove City College, which uses it for placement.
High school students sometimes grumble about the time taken up with an hour-long test that may not even count, said Grant Williams, supervisor of guidance for the Mt. Lebanon School District.
“The writing test has been a little bit of a flash point with a lot of students, primarily because they know a lot of colleges are still not utilizing it in admissions,” he said.
The move to change the test was prompted by comments made in 2001 by Richard Atkinson, then president of the University of California, the largest higher education system in the nation.
He threatened to stop using the SAT, saying that the test needed to match more closely what students learn in school.
The result was a revised SAT, given for the first time in March 2005. It included not only an additional section on writing but math and verbal sections, renamed critical reading. Each section is worth 200 to 800 points, so the total possible score rose from 1600 to 2400 points.
One of the College Board’s goals was to encourage high school to do a better job of teaching writing.
On the writing test, about a third of the points come from the 25-minute essay. The rest is multiple choice.
Dr. Atkinson praised the changes, but the National Council of the Teachers of English two years ago said the writing test was “unlikely to improve writing instruction” and could even compromise such efforts because other forms of writing could be ignored.
NCTE President-Elect Kathleen Blake Yancey, an English professor at Florida State University, said the jury was still out on the test’s impact.
She maintained the timed essays are not similar to those college students must produce, in part because they are not based on research or study.
The College Board’s own research is preliminary, but its study of a pilot version of test at 13 colleges indicated the writing exam may have some usefulness in predicting college success.
More comprehensive studies will be possible once freshman year results are available for the first class to face the test, the high school Class of 2006.
A Princeton Review survey shows that about half of the 166 most selective colleges require either the writing score on the SAT or the other major college entrance exam, the ACT, which offers an optional writing test.
According to the ACT, most colleges are not requiring students take a writing test. In Pennsylvania, about a third of the colleges ACT surveyed required or recommended prospective students take a writing test.
Even some schools that recommend or require the writing test aren’t using it to make admission decisions yet.
“We’re going to require it for a couple of years and then run it against our data to see how they perform and what kind of correlations there are,” said Michael Steidel, director of admission at Carnegie Mellon University.
Because Seton Hill University freshman Emily Heinicka didn’t expect her writing score on the SAT to count, she was pleasantly surprised her strong score enabled her to skip a basic composition course. She went straight to the second course on thinking and writing.
“I’m done with my liberal arts core for my English requirement,” said Ms. Heinicka, of Irwin, a graduate of the Pittsburgh High School for the Creative and Performing Arts
Seton Hill used to give its own timed essay for English placement; now it relies on the subscore for the SAT essay which is worth up to 12 points. Students who earn a score of 8 or higher place out of the first course.
Seton Hill also requires instructors of the second course to give a non-timed writing assignment in the first two weeks to make sure the placement is correct before it’s too late to switch classes.
“It worked really well. Our feedback from both students and instructors of the writing classes has been very positive,” said Laura Patterson, assistant professor of English and coordinator of Seton Hill’s undergraduate writing programs.
While it relies on its own application essays for admissions, Grove City College also uses the SAT writing score in placement, permitting those who score at least 580 in writing or critical reading to bypass a writing proficiency class. All but about 30 students this school year were able to skip that class, said Jeff Mincey, director of admission.
On the old SAT, Grove City students could place out of the writing proficiency class with a 580 on the verbal section.
Some colleges have found the scores on the critical reading and writing tests are fairly similar.
At Duquesne University, freshmen last fall averaged 558 in critical reading and 551 in writing.
“I think the skill set is somewhat similar,” said Paul-James Cukanna, executive director of admissions and enrollment services at Duquesne University.
(Education writer Eleanor Chute can be reached at echute@post-gazette.com or 412-263-1955. )
College Freshmen and Depression
“In the fall of 2005, psychiatrist J. Anderson Thomson Jr. was treating an 18-year- old college freshman whom he describes as ‘intensely depressed, feeling suicidal and doing self-cutting.’ A few years before, Thomson says, he would have interpreted her depression as anger turned inward. But instead he decided that her symptoms might be a way of signaling her unhappiness to people close to her. He discovered that his client’s parents had pressured her to attend the university and major in science, even though her real interest lay in the arts. In the course of therapy, he helped her become more assertive about her goals. When she transferred to another school and changed majors, he says, her depression lifted.” [Los Angeles Times, Health F1,2/12/07.]
Applying a new concept from evolutionary psychology, Thomson based his approach on the idea that depression is not simply a disease to be eliminated, but a way of eliciting support from family and friends. Speaking to you not as a trained psychologist, but as a mother of three, I am certain treating depression must involve multiple independent tools but Thomson’s tool should not be forgotten as it rings true in my children’s anecdotal experiences both in the high school and college world.
Going away to college is a stressful change to say the least. What can we do?
First thing, when you drop your freshman at their dorm, don’t leave until you have the cell phone number of their Resident Advisor. Even if you student is happy from day one you may find the number useful to have the RA pin a “Happy Birthday” banner on your student’s door.
Second, listen to your college freshmen, listen not only to what they say, but to what they sound like. It’s not really all that different from high school. It’s just harder to collect the data. Are they doing their work for school? Are they having fun with usual friends doing the usual things? Has anything changed about their day…sleeping more, eating less or more, more time on the computer? [You can see from this that you will need to learn who your student’s friends are…visit the school and take them out for free meals. It’s easy–college kids will talk for food.]
One parting thought…children of all ages experience change and stress…different times, different reasons for each child. But we should remember part of the depression might be reaching out for support at any age.
Northern Arizona University: A Strong Alternative
Located in Flagstaff, NAU is a definite alternative to University of Arizona and Arizona State University both squarely in the desert. Total undergraduates number 11,358 with 40% men and 60% women–less than half the size of U.of A. and ASU. The school runs NCAA Div I sports programs for both men and women. Only 8% of the men are in fraternities and 5% of the women join sororities. NAU offers a wide range of academics with 26% of students in education and 19% business, management, and marketing with the remaining 55% of the students pursing a variety of majors. Most recently reported average GPA of high school applicants was 3.4 with SAT verbal range 470-590 and math range 470-590. Other fun features of Northern Arizona is that it sometimes snows but is definitely no Ithaca, New York. And.. if you live in the Los Angeles area a train can take you to Flagstaff –swing by the Grand Canyon and Lowell Observatory if you go there. One final consideration Northern Arizona offers Rolling Admissions–if students get those applications in by Thanksgiving many will know before Christmas.”Yeah…I’m going to college!” Check it out at http://www.nau.edu . Or request materials mailed at undergraduate.admissions@nau.edu .
Don’t Wait to be Accepted. Find the Money Now!
Just as important as completing a persuasive and complete application for admission is completing a persuasive and complete application for financial aid. Don’t wait until your student is accepted to try to figure out how you will pay the college bill. If you wait for the acceptance letter it will be too late. Now is the time in order to give colleges the opportunity to put together a financial aid package.
Most important first step is to go to the website of every college to which your student applied and read it carefully and thoroughly. Each college has different aid forms and deadlines. Dont hesitate to call the financial aid office if you have questions.
To follow is a list of terms you will encounter as you research the financial aid requirements of each college:
Financial Aid: A general term used to refer to all types of money awarded to student based on financial need. It can include grants, loans, work-study and scholarships.
FAFSA (Free application for federal student aid): Completing the online (or paper) FAFSA is the first step toward applying for federal financial aid at any college. Dont wait until your 2006 taxes are complete, you can begin completing it now. The site walks you through step by step and even the technically challenged like myself can get through it.
CSS Profile (College Scholarship Service): some colleges that award non-federal funds require that this profile be completed. It is a division of the College Board who charges a family $5 registration fee and $18 to submit to each college. AGAIN check each college’s web site to see if this is necessary.
SAR (Student Aid Report): The Department of Education will send a SAR to the applicant and the colleges selected by applicant based on information provided in the FAFSA. The SAR will contain a dollar amount, EFC(Expected Family Contribution) that the family is expected to contribute to college expenses that year.
Demonstrated Need: The difference between the EFC and real cost of attending college.Some colleges are committed to meeting this difference and others are not.
Grants and Scholarships: Federal government and states have systems for granting or giving money to students with demonstrated financial need. It can be used for public or private colleges. Scholarships can also be awarded by colleges or outside sources for achievement, special talents or other particular reasons. These do not need to be repaid.
Loans: Loans must be repaid by students and/or parents and can come from federally funded loans, colleges themselves or banks. Watch the terms carefully and be proactive whenever possible to improve them.
Merit aid: Merit scholarships are awarded to students to entice them to attend the college. They do not have to be repaid.
Work-study: The federal work-study program is a way for students to earn money to help pay for college expenses. Jobs can be on or off campus, though off-campus jobs are usually related to community service. Even if your student does not qualify for work study have them seek work opportunities organized through the college as they are often more understanding of college testing schedules and vacations.
Don’t Be Misled At Your Mailbox By Colleges
What does it really mean if I check the little box on the PSAT and SAT registration forms releasing my contact information? Put simply, it allows College Board to sell your information to colleges who may purchase all types of different lists-lists based on scores, ethnic background, address. Soon you will be receiving almost daily letters from admissions offices, viewbooks and more.
For example, both Duke and Harvard annually send mail to over 70,000 high school students who have either expressed an interest in the school or released their information to the College Board. Each targetted student will receive multiple mailings. Many of the colleges know little about the students they contact, not your GPA, not your SAT’s, they just want you to apply to their school. Guttentag, Dean of Undergraduate Admissions at Duke University, explains that receiving a mailing from a college doesn’t guarantee admission or even preferential treatment.
Far from discouraging the checking of the little box on PSAT or SAT registration, I encourage you to check the box, to look through the college materials that will follow, to keep those that might be of interest and to discard the others… just as you would any other catalog you receive in the mail.